See an example of a Best Man Speech. In many cases, you may be invited to say a few words to the bride and groom during the ceremony or reception. And if you don't know how to do it, I'll give you an example here.

Remembering that the best man's speech is very important as you have been invited to a position of trust by the bride and groom. You are someone they trust to help them at all times.

“I don't have much experience in this whole marriage thing. Even though I have a son, I am the one who learns the most from him. But if there's one thing I've learned in these years of marriage, it's that it's very easy to get lost.

And when I say getting lost, it's not about notable events, but in the little everyday things too. We can get lost in work, we can get lost in our thoughts and we can even get lost in ourselves. 

But I learned, and now I tell you now, that the best thing in life is to have someone by our side, someone who is our point of reunion. 

We are strong, even with our weaknesses. We face the difficulties of the day, even when they have the upper hand. We are like locomotives carrying wagons full of dreams, fears, ambitions and frustrations. 

And like them, we continue, rain or shine, carrying our wagons all day long. But even the locomotives have a station where they meet again at the end of the day. May your marriage and home be like this season.

Go out every morning in search of your achievements, your achievements, to overcome your fears, knowing that at the end of the day you have a place to reunite.

When someone told Jesus that he would follow him wherever he went, he replied: “Foxes have their holes, and the birds of the air have their nests, but the Son of man has nowhere to lay his head.” 

Jesus, in his first encounter with humanity, showed us that we need a safe place to be with our loved ones, a place to rest and be well. 

Unlike us humans, Jesus had nowhere to lay his head because His work here on Earth would not be accomplished in the first meeting, but rather in the Reunion when He returns. Better than the meeting, it will be the reunion. 

Therefore, Adriano and Jenifer, no matter how lost you feel, seek together a way to find each other again. As I always tell Nati, to stay married you have to say yes every day.

When the routine at home distances you from each other, meet again at the dinner table with that Japanese food that you post and make us jealous.

If the workday is too hard for you, meet up at a restaurant and make the day end light before heading home.

When discouragement hits and the desire to do things diminishes, meet up again on a walk around the neighborhood. This does a lot of good, actually! I don't do it, but I highly recommend it.

If you wonder later why you chose to be together, close your eyes and meet again here. On this altar, in front of all these people. You are here because you find reasons to be happy in each other.

If one day sadness comes, and it may come, meet again here. Because here and today will give meaning to everything you experience from now on.

May you be very happy, today and always. In meetings and reunions. God bless you!" – Written by Abner Silvestre

You need to keep in mind that the best man speech is not about you. You need to understand that it's about talking about the bride and groom as they are. Give advice on what you think could help their future and make yourself available.

Always be aware of the moments in the bride and groom's lives that you witnessed and use them to create your speech. This way you will make your words more meaningful to them. And your speech will have much more impact.